It’s Valentine’s Day, the ultimate Hallmark holiday. While love is on the minds of many, it can also be a frustrating day for many. I’ve long struggled with Valentine’s Day. As a dorky kid, I never enjoyed exchanging Valentine’s cards, and as I got older, it was sometimes a good day and sometimes a bad one. But as a guy who’s been married for a long time, it’s gotten more challenging. My wife isn’t obsessed with getting the perfect gift, but I try to surprise her with something special. But the longer you’re together, the more challenging it is…