My nephew Ray’s basketball season is over. His school lost in the sectionals. I know he’s hurting. It was a tough loss. When you play team sports, there’s always a reason when you lose. You can blame the refs or a teammate, but you also blame yourself. I know that feeling. You feel empty and almost sick to your stomach. This feeling is unlike any other. It’s hard to explain. And I hadn’t felt that in a long time…